{"id":11192,"date":"2023-05-08T13:29:34","date_gmt":"2023-05-08T09:59:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/?p=11192"},"modified":"2023-05-08T13:29:34","modified_gmt":"2023-05-08T09:59:34","slug":"an-interview-with-mrs-neda-babaee-the-former-bahai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/?p=11192&lang=en","title":{"rendered":"An interview with Mrs. Neda Babaee, the former Baha\u2019i"},"content":{"rendered":"<p dir=\"ltr\">Mrs. Neda Babaee was born in a<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Bah%C3%A1%CA%BC%C3%AD_Faith\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Baha\u2019i<\/a> family. She was forced to participate at Baha\u2019i classes and meetings, but the contradictions and disturbing organizational atmosphere of Baha\u2019ism caused her turn against the deviant cult of Baha\u2019ism. The following is an interview with her:<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">When did you figure out that you were a Baha\u2019i?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Nearly when I was severe years of age when my family imposed me to participate in sessions and ethic classes in particular.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">How did they explain and define Baha\u2019ism?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">They were saying: \u201cBaha\u2019ism means comprehensive and all human virtues\u201d, but they didn\u2019t teach us anything about its concept, origin and complete history. \u201cThey were saying other religions such as Judaism, Christianity and Islam have been expired and they have been replaced by a new religion called Baha\u2019ism. They were speaking about Islam and Christianity whenever it was useful for them and offering statements related to these religions by their own concepts; otherwise they were using the Baha\u2019i resources.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">To what an extent did you and all Baha\u2019is bond with Baha\u2019ism commandments and orders?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">I myself was participating in \u201cE\u2019tefal\u201d or ethic meetings by force, but I was performing commandments like prayer and fasting in Baha\u2019ism. Generally speaking, the majority of the Baha\u2019is don\u2019t bond with the commandments although some of them who are bigoted may act them, but I realized that they don\u2019t emphasized on them.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">The Baha\u2019is are claiming for the lack of bigotry including the theological one; is it true?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">No. they are extremely bigoted and are stressing on their children to go to Golshan meetings forcefully otherwise, the organization boycott the families. They even brainwash the members in order for them to think exactly like the Baha\u2019i people in charge. Generally speaking, the Baha\u2019is confront in two kinds; when they encounter the Muslims, they say we respect your beliefs. We even visit the holy Imam\u2019s (P.H.) holy Shrines, but it is forbidden for them to recite the holy Quran among themselves.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Which attractiveness does Baha\u2019ism create for its members?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Making boys and girls get together and holding camps.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Can you pose your questions or doubts?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">As a matter of fact, they had created such an atmosphere for us not to pose any question or doubt particularly this fact that the Baha\u2019i families are afraid of being boycotted, consequently they don\u2019t dare to pose any question.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Explain more about Baha\u2019ism reception and meetings?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Reception is a meeting which is being held every 19 days. A message from the universal house of justice is being read. At the end, they collect some money to help Baha\u2019is affairs. E\u2019tefal meetings are divided into two parts teenagers and youth and the programs include: sport, game, intelligent games, handwriting and etc. of course, they were being done in Baha\u2019i style.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Has it happened for you not to go to school due to the organization programs?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Yes. We should have posed excuses such is being patient.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">What was your position in the organization?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">I didn\u2019t have any special position in the organization. According to families and organization desires, I participated in the Baha\u2019i meetings such as Hayat-e-Aali, reception, E\u2019tefal and ethics course. Of course, the organization determines duties for members such as proselytizing.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">How did you proselytize for Baha\u2019ism?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">We had close and intimate relationships with community members and proselytized for Baha\u2019ism indirectly; that is, we possessed good and special character in order to attract people to Baha\u2019ism.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Who do you aim to recruit?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It didn\u2019t differ. We must proselytize: The neighbors, friends, close relatives and etc.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Did Baha\u2019is obey the law?<\/span><br \/>\nsuperficially, they were saying they were obeying the law, but they were continuing proselytizing. This is violating the law.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Did you felt any meddling with the Baha\u2019is affairs by the Islamic Republic of Iran, when you were a Baha\u2019i?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">No, the Islamic Republic of Iran is confronting the Baha\u2019is like other citizens.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">When did you become Muslim?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Since 1379 S.H. when I got married but, in 1399 S.H. I formally became Muslim.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Did you know about Islam before?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">I had studied about Islam before and was interested in it, too.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">How did you turn against Baha\u2019ism and turn to Islam?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">First of all, the improper behavior of the Baha\u2019is and their prejudices caused me to be hateful of Baha\u2019ism particularly most Baha\u2019is who were teaching ethic to us didn\u2019t act them. They were meddling with people\u2019s personal lives to some extent, too. For example, a Baha\u2019i person had proposed me, but the organization did not allow me to get married with him, because they were rich and we were weaker than them. There was a group called \u201cSiyanati\u201d which was meddling with personal lives. So, I didn\u2019t participate at any ceremony when I was 15 years of age. I was gradually interested in Islam. I got married and I became formally Muslim.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">How were you encountered when you got separated from the cult?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">They frightened me too much but I didn\u2019t care. They were saying to me that Bahaullah would curse me and I would become homeless or my mother was saying: I will curse you. After Being Muslim, my relationships with my family and relatives were completely cut.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Have you had any relationship with the organization yet?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">I have not, but they want to pull me towards themselves even after any offspring was born some Baha\u2019is came to my house and asked me to send my offspring to Golshan classes I order to be educated like Baha\u2019is, but not only I didn\u2019t allow, but also I invited my parents and sister to Islam.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">What are the problems of an ex-Baha\u2019i after turning against Baha\u2019ism?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">In one side, he\/she will be boycotted by family and relatives and in the other side he\/she will be behaved improperly by Muslims who aren\u2019t aware enough and this issue will disturb the ex-Baha\u2019i.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">How is your relationship with Muslims now?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">I have a good relationship. Of course, I try not to say anything about my past with them. Although those who figured out. I am an ex-Baha\u2019i welcomed me. They gave me gifts, too.<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">According to you, how is it possible to help the Baha\u2019is who are following the truth?<\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Due to the kind of problems, classes, meeting and etc., the Baha\u2019i people are usually bigoted, but the best way are to speak with them and to make them aware.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mrs. Neda Babaee was born in a Baha\u2019i family. She was forced to participate at Baha\u2019i classes and meetings, but the contradictions and disturbing organizational atmosphere of Baha\u2019ism caused her turn against the deviant cult of Baha\u2019ism. The following is an interview with her: When did you figure out that you were a Baha\u2019i? 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