{"id":6728,"date":"2021-04-28T07:32:44","date_gmt":"2021-04-28T04:02:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/?p=6728"},"modified":"2022-05-16T07:33:13","modified_gmt":"2022-05-16T04:03:13","slug":"ex-bahai-story-from-reddit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/?p=6728&lang=en","title":{"rendered":"Ex-Baha’i story from Reddit"},"content":{"rendered":"

I need some advice. My family has strong roots to the Baha\u2019i religion . Both my mom and dad left Iran at a young age during the Iranian revolution to practice their religion in America . My dad is part of the spiritual assembly. My parents hosts allot of feasts at our house and are well known in the community. As a kid I was made to go to Sunday school allot and made to attend some of those Baha\u2019i youth camps . At the age of 15 I had to sign a Baha\u2019i card in front of everyone at the feast because If I didn\u2019t my parents would be embarrassed and be sad so I signed it . After that day I signed my card I told my dad I really don\u2019t believe in this faith. I could never wrap my head around why Baha\u2019u\u2019llah<\/a> had three wives and women not being able to serve in the universal house of justice. One of the main reasons that turned me off about the faith was the constant discussion of how to get more new followers . Every feast I attended we literally talked about how to get new members and discussing different ways to teach the faith to non believers. In Sunday\u2019s school and in youth camps , this was always the topic for the most part . In spite of all of this I made an agreement with my parents not to officially make myself not a Baha\u2019i but I let them know I don\u2019t believe in any of this this . The reason I did this is because my parents would really be sad and it would be an embarrassing situation for my dad because he is part of the spiritually assembly . If I wanted to withdraw from the Baha\u2019i faith it would be brought up in one of his spiritual assembly meetings. Everyone in the spiritual assembly is my dads close friends and they always go over to each others houses . I\u2019ve been trying to talk to my parents about leaving the faith and I always bring up really good points of why to leave it but they always are in denial and never give me answers to my questions . One day I asked my dad what makes you so sure about this faith and he said my great grandmother met Baha\u2019u\u2019llah<\/a>. They get really emotional after I question the faith in front of them, sometimes angry at me or sometimes sad . They\u2019re in there late 50s right now . My question is do you think it\u2019s too late for them to leave the faith . Do you think they\u2019re too far in it ? I really feel like they\u2019re brain washed . They were taught about the faith at a very young age . Everything around them and all there friends were Baha\u2019i. Baha\u2019i everything . Do I continue question their faith in front of them or just let them be? Sorry for the bad grammar.<\/p>\n

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I need some advice. My family has strong roots to the Baha\u2019i religion . Both my mom and dad left Iran at a young age during the Iranian revolution to practice their religion in America . My dad is part of the spiritual assembly. My parents hosts allot of feasts at our house and are […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6729,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[823],"tags":[5619,4645,4065],"class_list":["post-6728","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-english-articles","tag-ex-bahai","tag-reddit","tag-story"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6728","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6728"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6728\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6730,"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6728\/revisions\/6730"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6729"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6728"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6728"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bahaismiran.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6728"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}